This week is my fourth wedding anniversary. I'm not sad that we're not together, just the shit we celebrated last year while he was planning his departure. I know he planned this last year (secret meetings with friends and family), when I asked if he was having fun and what they were doing/talking, he was smiling all the time and didn't say anything.
Emotional abuse and one domestic abuse occurred due to his drinking and poor coping. He effectively isolated me from my own family and the little social support I had. I'm about to file for divorce https://onlinedivorcer.com/online-divorce-maryland